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Comment on Q&A: What do i do if my parents won’t stop fighting, even after the divorce? by Jessika B

Jessika B — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 22:14:08 +0000

Nothing, its not your business. sorry but its true. their relationshop clearly went sour. the only thing I would suggest you do, is suggest to them that they take some time off from speaking to one another.

Comment on Q&A: What do i do if my parents won’t stop fighting, even after the divorce? by HorseGirl334

HorseGirl334 — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:36:34 +0000

sorry, but i have been in the same situation for 5 years, you can’t do anything about it, you could suggest the email instead or IM but they are always going to fight.

Try getting into a routine and not doing anything out of the ordinary to give them something to fight about

Comment on Q&A: What do i do if my parents won’t stop fighting, even after the divorce? by RedRabbit

RedRabbit — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:09:07 +0000

Tell them that they are divorced now, there is no need for the yelling, and if they don’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say anything at all or go through their attorneys when they want to talk. Don’t stay out of it, because you are a part of this. They are affecting you and they need to know what they are doing is wrong.

Comment on Q&A: What do i do if my parents won’t stop fighting, even after the divorce? by ruth

ruth — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 20:50:23 +0000

Give them time. Try to stay out of it entirely. Just go off and find a quiet place.

Comment on Is it worth a teen trying to stop a divorce? by smahadevan39

smahadevan39 — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 11:26:43 +0000

It is a delicate matter for young children.
Have a dialogue with your dad and mom and leave it to them

Comment on Is it worth a teen trying to stop a divorce? by Queen Agnostic

Queen Agnostic — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 11:15:11 +0000

sorry your going through this….. this is between your parents but it wont hurt to sit them both down and tell them straight out that its ripping your insides apart… I think parents need to hear this more because maybe they might at least try a little harder to make the changes they need to in order to save the marriage…… kids are rarely considered in this decision but if you put your two cents in, you never know…… you per say cant stop the divorce, but you might make them think a little harder about alternatives…. just go into it with no expectations……. but pour your heart out… maybe write things down and practice what you want to say because this will be a highly emotionally charged situation and you want to be prepared.

good luck!

Comment on Is it worth a teen trying to stop a divorce? by wise one

wise one — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 11:05:39 +0000

I think you certainly have a right to let them both know how you feel. You may not be able to stop the divorce, and that may not be the best thing either. But tell them that you love them both and ask them what they have done to try and resolve their problems. I think they owe it to you to at least try find a solution. eg marriage guidance counseling, family relationship counseling, psychologist etc Some marriages can’t be saved but remember that sometimes “it’s better to be from a broken home than to live in one.”

Comment on Is it worth a teen trying to stop a divorce? by PEGGY S

PEGGY S — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 10:56:35 +0000

Ask them to at least try marriage counseling for the sake fo the family. Tell them that if they can not work it out, after trying counseling, you will accept it.

You can not make your parents love each other, no matter what you do. You can only love them, and keep in mind that no matter whether they are together or apart, they will always love you.

Should they split up, tell both of them that you will not allow either of them to talk bad about each other, to you, because you love them both and do not want to be put in the middle of their problems.

Best wishes. I hope things will work out okay for you.

Comment on Is it worth a teen trying to stop a divorce? by Deonna P

Deonna P — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 10:21:31 +0000

I’m sure that there is more to your mother wanting a divorce than just laziness and bad spending habits. Children usually have no idea what their parents’ marriage is like other than the surface details. There are probably other details of which you are unaware. Regardless, their relationship is their relationship, and nothing you can say or do can fix it. It is their responsibility to try to mend their marriage. You will only get hurt if you try.

I know how hard it can be to have one’s parents go through a divorce. Please find someone to talk to, be it a grandparent or other relative, friend, counselor, teacher, etc. This is not your fault. Good luck, hon.

Comment on Is it worth a teen trying to stop a divorce? by David

David — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 10:00:44 +0000

It all comes down to whether you trust your Mother. Because if you do then you have to understand that she will be making the right decision and it wont just be for herself but also for you. Another thing is, she may not be telling you ALL the facts, there could be other reasons of which she has not told you. When my parents got divorced I was very sad (naturally) but now I realise it was definately the right thing for everyone.

PS.. two lots of presents at Christmas and Birthdays aint too bad either